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| Fighting couples |
Relationships come in many packages. Some too short, some
quite long lasting while a good number full of jokers. Any serious woman would
tell you that it takes any man to appear for a date in the name of an
appointment but rather a real man to stick to the true values of what a lasting
relationship requires. Romance doesn’t lie in the obvious things men do for
love from dinner dates to shopping, swimming ,movies, selfie moments , posh rides, expensive weddings or even beach vacations but rather the little
things men assume and take for granted . Yes you call her every two hours, text
the whole night, send her credo ,visit each other and most often have pillow
fights after couple showers but do you ever take your time to know more about
what’s troubling her on the inside. Reminds me of the reason why most ladies
usually prefer to spend more time with their BaeFF’s than sweet hearts.
Bottom-line they choose to confide in such close friends because of the fear of
unknown . Maybe or maybe not you were too busy
focusing on just but a part of her. All you know are her favourite food,
joints, movies, kicks, wears e.t.c .How about when she wakes up with a swollen
face probably because she didn’t get enough sleep last night reason being she
had something unfolding up her sleeves but was never sure of whether to share
it with you or not. I believe any sensitive man would not hesitate to use the
common phrases such as “ Oh my God what happened to your face,can I get you an
ice bag ?” and it stops there .she replies by saying “ Don’t mind ,I just
didn’t have enough sleep “ .And then you go straight ahead to yester night’s favourite
Tv program just like that! Dude you are
not straight. Come on she didn’t even have time to watch that comedy or fashion
thingie you are talking about because
she was stressed up .About what? That should be your next question whether she
mentions it or not. Women love stubborn guys. They are more open and
comfortable to inquisitive people than just rather statues .Remember I used the
word ‘inquisitive’ and not ‘nagging’ mark my words. Whenever you take your time
to dwell more on what’s making your woman uncomfortable, there you go .You will
be the right person ever to fit in her shoes. Leave alone her P**sy.
I believe it’s easier to say “Will you marry Me ?” than to
say “ I’m pregnant “ or “ I think we need to get tested” .In short our men of
today prefer a lot of show offs to just meeting life head on. Being real,
gentle, having the caring heart and it doesn’t end there. Women are more attached
to soul mates who mention doctors more often than they mention the barman or liqor brands . Men
who are more approachable with more real life questions than just life’s luxuries.
When he is busy playing Fifa or betting ahead of the next international
football match on his handset you are trying to put Google to task in
trying to know more about the signs and symptoms of pregnancy or Sexually
transmitted disease, how to become a
good wife, signs of a cheating husband or even barrenness .Trust me women have
a lot in the head to deal with no wonder we cannot blame them much for the many
mood swings they carry forward into a day even meant to turn out great. As a
man you need to learn how to know your woman is upset. Learn to know when they
are stressed and how to tell whether they had a great day or night. It’s called
love-telligence.
For instance when a woman texts you with one word thrice,
she is mood less. When she texts you with one letter, dude you need to apologize,
it’s about you so find out where you went wrong. When she says “ we need to
talk “ ,hurry up bro she needs the talk like yesterday .How you react to the
talk determines the future of that relationship. It’s never about who paid the
bill or rather who was present at the board . A lot of men will not agree
with me on this. It is easier for a man to jump from a relationship to the next
but never easy for a woman to say “let’s call it quit” .Any woman who utters
such words is always finding out whether you will agree to it or not. Now you
are on the know .Send us an email via bonyezastar@gmail.com
if you need us to spy on a cheating partner .
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